I wrote this a few years ago and am reposting it on January 11, 2025, the 6th anniversary of my father's passing. I share it today because I will be thinking about and feeling him today and a few more after that. I'll be back to my regularly scheduled programming soon enough, probably after playing some more Wayne Shorter. ******* Five years ago my father visited me in the early part of December for one of our annual Christmas time get togethers, something our relationship at a distance permitted on a yearly basis. Usually we went to a restaurant, other rare times both he and his wife would visit me. The joint visits were always dicey; his wife's personality required varying levels of management. But 90% of the time I was a good son and did my best to make accommodations. This particular time my dad was visiting my home and I was making us big salads for dinner. His limp had progressed (regressed?) well past the walking cane stage to full blown walker by this time. It was...